Joesmey: A blog about a Dutchie that fell in love with a Thai.

Follow our journey as we navigate the ups and downs of an intercultural relationship. From different worlds dreaming of a life together.

Currently at long distance ✈️💞

Meet Joey & Esmee

Hi! We're Esmee from the Netherlands and Joey from Thailand. We met by chance on a beach on the beautiful island of Koh Phangan, and from that moment, our lives changed forever. What started as a holiday romance grew into a long-distance relationship. Today we're expecting our first baby and getting ready to start a new chapter together in Thailand.

Met on Koh Phangan🏝️
Fell in Love 💕
Long Distance ✈️
Expecting a Baby 👶
Married 💍
And More to Come...

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Latest Posts

Applying for a Schengen Visa for Your Thai Partner (Our Experience)

Last week Joey went to Bangkok for his appointment at VFS Global to apply for a Schengen visa so he can visit me in the Netherlands. He wants to support me when I give birth to our son and help during...

Getting Married in Thailand as a Foreigner: Our Experience as a Dutch and Thai Couple

When Joey and I decided to get married in Thailand, it wasn’t because we had always dreamed of a big wedding. At the time, we had just discovered that we were expecting our first child together...

Unexpectedly Expecting: Our Thai-Dutch Surprise Baby Story 

In November, I spent a month together with Joey in Thailand. It was supposed to be the last time I was “just visiting.” Once I got back home, I would apply for the DTV visa so I could move...

The Full Story of How We Met

Never would I have guessed that my life would change on the party island of Koh Phangan. I didn’t go there to party. I only went because some fellow travelers recommended it to me and because it was...

I’m Moving to Thailand

I’ve made some decisions. At the beginning of 2026, I’ll be moving to Thailand, most likely in February or March. I’ve finally let go of all the doubt and “what ifs.” I decided to do it, no matter...

Best Skimboarding Beaches on Koh Phangan: Our Top Picks

When Joey and I first met on Koh Phangan, it was through skimboarding. What started as a conversation and curiosity for the sport turned into something much bigger. A connection that kept pulling us...